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Q&A 17: How do I repay the Universe for all the good things it has sent me?; Miscarriages; Hypnosis and alien abductees and alien plots; Who you will be when you die; Suicides; How literally do we create our reality?; What can you focus on when you meditate
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This article is from the Hermes Reality Creator Series Books and or upcoming books.
© copyright 1995 - 2017 by Tom DeLiso / Hermes

Question:
The sum of my existence, and my "gifts" is not to just color the painting of my life. I want to surrender my self and my energy for a Higher Good...I am at odds if my creating a perfect life is really what matters. I would not for anything in the world change my blessings, but I feel guilty somehow. Maybe because I'm not used to getting good things in life, or maybe I'm not used to stability, but I cannot but help feel that I owe the Universe for using its energy. I want to make sure that as much as I do for myself, I am doing for all sentient beings four-fold. Does this make sense?

Hermes:
You don't owe the Universe anything for your good fortune. It is every individual's right to these things. God wants you to be wealthy, and happy, and secure, and abundant. It is a gift to you from him with no strings attached - the ultimate gift of love. Your presence just being in the Universe is enough to repay any debt you may think you owe.

It is quite normal to want to give something extra back to God and your fellow man for your good fortune. And the beauty part of this giving is the more you give to others, the more others give to you. But more as people evolve and grow so does the need to help others. You want to help, and that is the best kind of helping. So the way you help is to just be kind to others and do what you can when you can to help those people that need help and want it.

You will find your own way of giving back to God and others, and if you don't you will anyway, because your presence and connection to God is enough to bring daylight to night. Look at a light bulb in a dark room. You turn the light on and it shines outward pushing back the darkness. The light bulb does not have to do anything but be a light bulb. So it is with you. As long as you strive to improve yourself and strengthen your connection to God, you will push back the dark energy on the planet, and illuminate the path for others to follow

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Question:
My wife just recently had bad cramping and bleeding with her pregnancy. The doctor told her he saw no signs of life. Could she still be pregnant? This has caused me much grief and pain also for my wife. Any answers or helpful advice would be greatly appreciated.

Hermes:
I like to think anything is possible today. However sometimes things just don't seem to work out.

Quite often a pregnancy will terminate itself because the body (and perhaps even the mother-to-be) is not ready emotionally to go full term. The partial pregnancy acts as a preparation for the actual one that will follow. In these cases the incarnating child knows this before hand, and will return again, when the body has been better prepared to go full term.

Please make sure you follow your doctors advice on this, as he has your wife's health and safety at the forefront.


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Question:
I just read a book about hypnotic regressions of supposed abductees. It has given me a little scare. The book is about the secret alien agenda and the idea that they have a hybridization program going on. What are you experiences with this? Have you seen Grays? Have you heard anything in your out of body travel? Please give me your view on this if you would.

Hermes:
Keep in mind that much of what you read about aliens is often colored and contains only small amounts of real facts.

Hypnosis is not a completely accurate account, despite what you may have read. Any recorded event in the unconscious mind is subject to interpretation by that unconscious mind. To put it simply, it is possible for facts to be cross-wired in hypnosis, so that say a fear of conspiracies will enter into a hypnosis record and distort the person's interpretation of what went on. It is possible for a benign encounter to be recorded by the unconscious mind as traumatic. Much depends on the person's point of view.

With that said, I have had no physical encounters with Grays or any aliens. I have only had nonphysical encounters. While I sometimes find the nonphysical Grays secretive, I do think the ones I have dealt with are trying to help the planet. Keep in mind also that Grays, like any other society have their own criminal element. It is possible that it is the criminal element that is responsible for some of the bad encounters with humans.

Please, remember that I cannot prove that physical aliens exist. My only encounter with "Grays" as they are called, has been on the nonphysical plane. While there is much testaments and some evidence to support that physical "Grays" exist physically, I have never encountered one, nor seen any clear proof that they exist physically.

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Question:
I remember you saying that when we die we're still the same consciousness type as we were when alive. So this means that if I never improve in the time it takes for me to die then I won't be any different when I don't have a body? Or does it mean we'll be conscious at the same level our unconscious improved to on the physical plane? Or am I mixing all these ideas.

Hermes:
Well, the unconscious mind is just a mechanism used in physical reality to help automate life. In the nonphysical there is no unconscious mind, just the merged conscious mind. So when you die, who you are merges consciously and unconsciously. This merging also happens in out of body states too. It is important to take every conscious moment in the physical plane and use it to better yourself. So much opportunity to grow exists here in physical reality. So to answer the question, yes! The person you are when you die is pretty much the person you will be in the nonphysical. You can still learn and grow in the nonphysical, but much more slowly. The physical plane is the fast track to evolving yourself.

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Question:
I think I remember you talking about suicides- and what happens to those people. I remember reading somewhere in another book that people who commit suicide aren't looked down upon when they're dead, but when they go back into physical life they have to face the same situation as before, so they really didn't gain anything but having to deal with more of what they escaped from. Is that what happens?

Hermes:
Yes the real tragedy of a suicide is not that the person killed themselves, but rather that they could not work through whatever it was that caused them to end their life. Then afterward in the nonphysical they have to deal with the trauma that the event caused, and, go back again and have to face the same challenge again in another life. Of course this does not happen till the person is ready to go back. Some suicides are so traumatic to the soul that they get lost in the void between reality and fantasy. If this happens it could be hundreds of years before that person comes out of this psychological state.

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Question:
Also, how literally do you mean that we all create our reality? I mean, if I created myself to be in a world with pink water and red air that you can see and just crazy things, then could that be? Instantaneously? Like if I really wanted it enough could I all of sudden physically be somewhere created by my imagination? Or, does how much you want it not compensate for how much you work for it? Or do you have to want to work for it to get it?

Hermes:
You create every facet of your life, every person, happening, place, experience. Now you are not alone in your reality creating, because the people around you create their own worlds as well. So what happens is your creation is fitted with their creation and we have many people all creating their own reality and having those realities fit together. So in theory you could just think yourself into a world where the water was pink. However, that action would take you out of the shared reality. So your unconscious mind makes certain decisions for you about your reality creating. It will keep you in a world where the water is blue.

Now the danger in telling you this is you misunderstanding what I am saying. I am not saying that your reality is subject to anyone else. What I am saying is that you mold your created world to fit into the world that those around you are creating. You are still the creator and director of your reality. If you really wanted pink water, and you wanted to stay in the shared reality, that reality of pink water would be created in another way. For example, you move to a place where they have a very funky water park and the water is pink. In this example you have stayed in the shared reality, you have not changed the color of the water for the entire planet.

And by the way you can and do pop out of physical reality all the time to experience these funky realities. It's called a daydream. A daydream is nothing more than you leaving this reality for a time and going someplace else, most likely someplace on the nonphysical that you created there. Energy is much freer on the nonphysical, every thought does not have to fit into that shared reality, so it can manifest almost instantly.


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Question:
When I meditate should I focus more on the high pitch in my ear that gets louder (that you said was due to high blood pressure- eek!), or the images, or a mantra, or my breath, or feeling love. I wonder if I should focus on my angels instead and get to know them on a level that I can understand here,

Hermes:
That high pitched noise is your blood pressure. It vibrates the ear follicles and causes that sound. Everyone hears it. It is just louder on some people than others. Of course the higher the blood pressure the louder it is.

You can focus on anything you want when you meditate. What I try to do is just empty my mind and see what pops into it. You can learn from that by noting what it is. Sometimes I'll focus on a color, or a feeling and try to capture this quality. Sometimes I'll focus on a person to find out how they are doing or send them a mental message. It is certainly to your benefit to focus on your angels, higher self, or God. These energy beings are very pure and by focusing on them in meditation you draw those qualities into yourself, thereby raising your vibrations and becoming more in harmony with ALL-THAT-IS.